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The Traditional Man vs. The Adventurous Woman
​Devastation or Destiny??? (The Settled Heart)
Not all relationships end because of infidelity and mind games. Some matches aren’t simply compatible with each other, and that’s okay. Whether its lifestyle choices, goals, and different views on how relationships operate, if it won’t fit in the long run, its best to know up front. But…there’s always that question of What if…?
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Moral Compass Broken
The Perfect Sin​

Walking away because it’s the right thing to do or staying with a forbidden love that feels so right. When dealing with the matters of the heart, loving someone who may seem like that “wrong person” but right in your heart can result in conflicted feelings.​ ​Read More.

she knew vs. he knew
​Rushing to Distraction

HIM: “She knew I wasn’t ready for a relationship.”
HER: “He knew I wanted to be with him and kept treating me like his girlfriend.”
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Love in Survival Mode
​Devastation or Destiny???

We should never take “whatever” that is handed to us, due to the fear of being alone. The mind isn’t operating out a sense of self-awareness. It's in survival mode. Read More.

Distracted: Tips on How to Cope w/ Moving On
Rushing to Distraction

You know you need to move on, you may even want to move on, but the heart takes over and you're stuck in distraction. So what do you do? How can you deal with the new changes of something as simple as a morning routine? Read More.

Bad Encounters...A Quick Run to the Store
Wrong Vengeance

A quick run to the convenience store, late at night, turned into a fight for demanding respect as well as driving the point of rejection home for the "Loitering Bachelor".
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Seat Filler
the Heartbreak Diaries Series

You're not his woman, nor does he have the desire for you to be. You're just filling space until the original owner comes back OR until he finds a better fit. You know, the one he’d be willing to put in the work for. Not you though. I call this position, the seat filler. Read More.
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